After the Annus Horribilis i have to report that this year has gone a bit better. In what is known as the midlife crisis (yes, i even bought myself the convertible…) decisions have been made throughout the year, some tiny some big, that slowly (yet steadily) are improving my life as a whole.
- Move out and away from a very unhappy place
- Share new house with a friend
- (Re)start sport activity
- Set aside each and every person that is not correct or brings unhappiness
- Take care and give back to each and every person that is correct and brings happiness
- Balance work and real life
- Enjoy what i have now, tomorrow it can be all gone
I also developed a very simple set of rules regarding relationships. Some may seem strange in the world as it is today…
- Anyone already committed is off limits
- Anyone in workplace is off limits
- Don’t fool around, relationships are not a competition, less is more
- Don’t rush nothing, it takes the time that i it takes
- Be honest and correct (no matter what, whom or when)
And even if all things considered this as not been a good year, it has been much better than the previous one. I feel some kind of stand on point, and am crawling out of the hole, slowly but steady.
Very important goals in this year:
- Focus, focus, focus
- Don’t be late, don’t be late, don’t be late